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BDSM Reference Books

Books are available from Books-a-Million, Amazon and Barnes & Noble among other places

201 Things You Should Know About AIDS and Other STD's
Jeffrey Nivid, Fern Gotfried
The Loving Dominant
John Warren, Ph.D.
A Hand in the Bush
Deborah Addington
The Marketplace
Laura Antoniou
Anal Pleasure & Health: A Guide for Men and Women
Jack Morrin
Miss Abernathy's Concise Slave Training Manual
Christina Abernathy
The New Bottoming Book 
Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt
On the Safe Edge : A Manual for SM Play
Trevor Jacques
Boundaries and Relationships: Knowing, Protecting and Enjoying the Self
by Charles Whitfield, MD.
Positively False: Exposing the Myths around HIV and AIDS
John Shenton
Claiming of Sleeping Beauty
Anne Rice (A. N. Roquelaure)
Thy Rod and Staff
Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide to Kinky Sex
Gloria Brame
S&M: Studies in Dominance & submission: Product Link
Thomas S. Weinberg (Editor)
The Compleat Slave: Creating and Living an Erotic Dominant/Submissive Lifestyle
Jack Rinella
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
Philip Miller, Molly Devon
Leathersex: A Guide for the Curious Outsider and the Serious Player
Joseph Bean
Sex Changes: The Politics of Transgenderism
Pat Califia
Different Loving:The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission
Gloria G. Brame, Jon Jacobs
The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners
Lady Green
Encyclopedia of Knots and Fancy Ropework
Raoll Graumont
SM 101: A Realistic Introduction (Revised)
Jay Wiseman
Erotic Bondage Handbook
Jay Wiseman
The Surrendered Wife: A Practical Guide to Finding Intimacy, Passion, and Peace with a Man
Laura Doyle
The Ethical Slut, A guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities
by Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt
Ties That Bind: The SM/Leather/Fetish Erotic Style, Issues, Commentaries and Advice
Guy Baldwin, Joseph Bean
Everything You Need to Know about STD's
Samuel Woods, Ruth Rosen
Tongue Fu! How to Deflect. Disarm and Defuse Any Verbal Conflict
by Sam Horn
Exhibitionism for the Shy: Show off, Dress up, and Talk Hot
Carol Queen
The New Topping Book
Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt
Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment
Hardy Haberman
Training with Miss Abernathy: A Workbook for Erotic Slaves and Their Owners
Christina Abernathy
The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us From Violence
by Gavin de Becker
Trust, the Hand Book: A Guide to the Sensual and Spiritual Art of Handballing
by Bert Herrman
21st Century Kinky Crafts
Janet Harvey
Urban Aboriginals: A Celebration of Leather Sexuality
Geoff Mains
Learning the Ropes: A Basic Guide to Safe and Fun S/M Lovemaking
Race Bannon
When Someone You Love Is Kinky
Dossie Easton, Catherine Liszt
Leatherfolk: Radical Sex, People, Politics, and Practice
Mark Thompson
When the Earth Moves; Women and Orgasm
Mikaya Heart
The Ultimate BDSM Resource Book
Sir Bamm!
Life Through the Blogs of a Recovering Addict


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