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For each item, you need to provide two answers:
For Experience, write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity. Mark N/A if it does not apply to you.
For Willingness, indicate for each item how you feel about DOING that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5.
"?" means you don't understand what the item is attempting to describe.
NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).
0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would permit Me to do it if I really wanted to (sometimes called a "soft limit").
1 means you don't want to do, or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you.
2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.
3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/occasional basis.
4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.
Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to do only with Me, but not with casual play-partners.
Note any additional information or nuances which might be important for Me to know in the column to the right.
There is intentionally some overlap between activities. Unless otherwise stated, the sub is the recipient/target of the activity.
Copy and paste this checklist to a document text so you can mark your answers next to each item.
|Experience||Willingness||Notes & Nuances|
|yes/no||NO or 0-5|
|Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders)|
|Being serviced (sexual)|
|Chores (domestic service)|
|Corsets (wearing casually)|
|Eye contact restrictions|
|Fear (being scared)|
|Full head hoods|
|Hair or head held during oral sex|
|Hand jobs (giving)|
|Hand jobs (receiving)|
|Harems (serving w/other subs)|
|Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus)|
|Head (recv fellatio/cunnilingus)|
|High heel wearing|
|Lectures for misbehavior|
|Manacles & Irons|
|Modeling for erotic photos|
|Oral/anal play (rimming)|
|Persona training (in scene)|
|Piercing (temporary, play-pierce)|
|Restrictive rules on behavior|
|Scratching - getting|
|Serving as furniture|
|Serving as a maid|
|Serving as waitress/waiter|
|Serving orally (sexual)|
|Serving other Doms|
|Shaving (body hair)|
|Shaving (genital hair)|
|Speech restrictions (when, what)|
|Standing in corner|
|Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)|
|Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)|
|Supplying new partners for Dom|
|Voyeurism (watching others)|
|Voyeurism (your Dom w/others)|
|Video (watching others)|
|Video (recordings of you)|
|Wearing symbolic jewelry|
|Wooden paddle (punishment)|
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